***OFF TOPIC*** Prayer Request***
Normally I would not post a prayer request here,BUT stressed
My Mother passed away yesterday from cancer, and this morning,
My former husband (15yrs) passed away @4am from kidney&heart failure.
My kids are all grown, youngest is 19, but they are all beyond stressed….
My baby girl has been sobbing uncontrollably all day.
Fo those who believe in God and prayer, please remember my children:
Amanda, Lacey, Ciara Janel, Daniel, & Shardae.
*So thankful, my Secret Pumpkin, got her gift* yeah!
Sorry to hear about your losses. Praying for you and your family. The sun will always shine after the dark clouds pass.
I’m so sorry for your losses. May they both rest in peace and your family find solace in faith and each other.
What unimaginable losses to have to experienced all at once..I’m so sorry. I hope you have and will continue to have lots of support from your friends and family and I hope they will continue to be their for you. I lost my mother when I was 22 and I found that I needed support most after about six months once the shock of it all wore off. Sometimes it is difficult to understand the depth of the loss to older children ( I had one relative tell me that it would be easier for me as I was no longer living at home) because of this I am especially wishing your children strength. Try to remember the good times, and focus on all of the positive, funny and touching memories that are generally brought out at these times. Draw strength from the love you shared with those you recently lost and the legacy of that love from your surviving family.
With Sympathy
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Gosh, so sorry you lost your Mom at 22!
This is rough :-(
The funny stories, yes!
It is wonderful for family to come together and lean on each other :-)
It was rough, I was very close to her. I found that I handled grief a little bit like her, I felt like I was in a daze for a little while and spent most of my time making sure everyone else was okay and not daring to reflect on my own feelings too deeply. My mother wasn’t able to fully grieve for my father until about 4 years after his death when she broke down at her uncle’s funeral.
I forced myself to fully engage with my life afterwards because I knew if I stayed at home it would not be good.. I was still in university and worked about hrs a week at a store. My co-workers were amazing they gifted me 3 hours each of their own pay checks and made sure I ate and helped me deal with the waves of grief that would happen at times. Oddly I had my best semester at university despite missing almost two weeks. I seemed to do better at university when I was less focused on it for some reason.
Thinking about you and your family and wishing you the best through this difficult time.
I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I wish you and your family comfort and warmth in your time of need. May they be guided by the angels to watch over you. You shall be in my prayers.
Please know that if you need anyone to talk to I am always available.
So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.
Thoughts and prayers with you and you family during this sad time. I can’t imagine the pain from such losses, so sorry to hear! Sending hugs your way hug
So very sorry for your losses. I’m praying for you and your family, and your secret pumpkin.
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