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Bought a new matcha bowl/Chawan today!

So, when I got home I HAD to test it out. I was just in the process of whisking this up into some creamy eggnog for an iced eggnog latte when one of my roommate’s came home…

…With my ex boyfriend.

Steepster, correct me if I’m wrong, but is it not an unspoken rule that you don’t invite your roommate’s ex boyfriend over without at the very least giving said roommate a head’s up first so they can either plan accordingly to hide in their room or just get the hell out of dodge if they’d prefer; because I DEFINITELY would have said that would be the bare fucking minimum of acceptable behavior. Apparently I’d be wrong though because I was completely fucking blindsided…

So, now I’m hiding in my room with my matcha eggnog. The plus is that the new chawan is the perfect size for a small portion of matcha; and this tastes really good paired with the eggnog! The downside, of course, is that I feel trapped in my room right now and I’m absolutely FUMING. This is the first time I’ve seen the ex outside of work ’cause of fucking course we work together since we broke up, and I was NOT ready. I feel like my feelings weren’t taken into consideration by either of them; and I’m not willing to go out into the living room where they’re gaming and just pretend that everything is fine when it definitely isn’t.

I feel on the verge of crying, to be honest. Because of why we broke up, it’s just easier for me to have as little of him in my life as humanly possible; work is already like my own version of hell. I shouldn’t feel this uncomfortable in my own home…

It’s not fun being teased with/by someone you can’t have as much as you would like to.

Indigobloom

I’m sorry to read that they are so inconsiderate. hugs

mrmopar

Very inconsiderate.

VariaTEA

Yeah, definitely not a situation you should have been put in. Tbh, when I had roommates the rule was to give the other roommates a heads up when anyone was coming over. I would say that rule especially applies when the person coming is someone’s ex.

Evol Ving Ness

^ That.

I am sorry that this happened and that you are living with someone who thinks that doing this without giving you at least a heads up is ok.

Maddy Barone

Holy crap! That goes beyond careless or rude. That is slap-someone-up big-time territory.

twinofmunin

arrrgh. that is definitely inconsiderate at best. your home is your only real refuge; no one should have to feel unsafe (even in terms of emotional threats) there. :( i’m sorry this happened.

greenteafairy

Super inconsiderate. I’m sorry you have to deal with this.

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Indigobloom

I’m sorry to read that they are so inconsiderate. hugs

mrmopar

Very inconsiderate.

VariaTEA

Yeah, definitely not a situation you should have been put in. Tbh, when I had roommates the rule was to give the other roommates a heads up when anyone was coming over. I would say that rule especially applies when the person coming is someone’s ex.

Evol Ving Ness

^ That.

I am sorry that this happened and that you are living with someone who thinks that doing this without giving you at least a heads up is ok.

Maddy Barone

Holy crap! That goes beyond careless or rude. That is slap-someone-up big-time territory.

twinofmunin

arrrgh. that is definitely inconsiderate at best. your home is your only real refuge; no one should have to feel unsafe (even in terms of emotional threats) there. :( i’m sorry this happened.

greenteafairy

Super inconsiderate. I’m sorry you have to deal with this.

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